Life And It's Seemingly Never Ending Problems

In today's mixed up world, life can feel like a terrifying rollercoaster. Once everything feels fine, life throws a huge obstacle in front of you that seems impossible to get over. But it's not the challenges that worry us, it's the fact that this cycle never ends. We get fed up of the fact that life can never smoothen itself out. It always finds a way to toughen the ride. We begin to feel restless with the enormous burden of troubles that we carry on our shoulders. It starts to feel mandatory to try to solve every single problem that we face in our lives. And if we somehow fail at finding the solution, we start feeling guilty and useless. Our mind tells us that we have no purpose on this world, while our heart tells us the complete opposite. 

As a result, we feel stuck and wonder what thoughts we're supposed to follow. Well, sometimes it's best to follow nothing except acceptance. If something doesn't work out, then just think of it as a sign that perhaps it is supposed to stay that way. Let things be in life. Life's ride is always tough, but, it depends on how the rider faces the problem. You can't expect yourself to be able to find a completely amazing solution to everything. If you do, then that means that you are the very obstacle in your own life. Some things are not meant to have a solution in life. It doesn't mean that you ignore it completely. It means that you're supposed to stop trying to get the best answer. Sometimes, you get the best answer by letting things be. This may seem absurd right now,  but this will be clearer with an example. Imagine that you started a fire out of wood, and it just extinguished. Unfortunately, a lot of smoke started coming out of the newly extinguished fire. You try numerous times to stop the smoke, but it started to get a bit worse. In the end, you just let the smoke billow and eventually it stops. It is completely gone. That is kind of how life's problems are. They cause a lot of irritation and trouble at first and sometimes solving them just makes them worse. But when you leave them alone for some time, they eventually get better by themselves without any interference.